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Fantastic Tales of Polyamory

Spoilers!!! This post contains spoilers for the popular fantasy series Wheel of Time. Stories are important because the values of a culture are deeply interwoven into the characters and plot twists. No one sits a five-year-old down and tells them monogamy is the socially acceptable way to love when they grow up. However, young children… Continue reading Fantastic Tales of Polyamory

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Variation in Human Sexuality

My upcoming book Catch and Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life delves into the science of love. Researching and writing on this topic was alarmingly insightful, and I enjoyed it thoroughly. My book is on its way to being published, and I find myself missing the research as I fight my… Continue reading Variation in Human Sexuality

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Dating Profile User Manual

While at RelateCon, I listened to a couple presentations by Cunning Minx and Lusty Guy, co-hosts of the podcast Polyamory Weekly. There were many useful nuggets of information and one of my favorites was writing a user manual for yourself which can be embedded in a dating profile. Ideally, it will allow potential suitors to… Continue reading Dating Profile User Manual

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RelateCon 2017: Solo Poly- The Nights You Spend Alone

I had such a wonderful time at RelateCon. Here are the notes for my presentation on solo poly. Please contact me if you have any comments or questions. Thanks! My very first boyfriend and I had an open relationship, much to the disapproval of my religious friends, which was all of them. Even though I… Continue reading RelateCon 2017: Solo Poly- The Nights You Spend Alone

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Review: The Myth of Monogamy

Doing the research for my book was one of my favorite parts of the writing process. I read many books, journal articles, and online nonsense. One of my favorites was The Myth of Monogamy by David P. Barash and Judith Eve Lipton. The Myth of Monogamy is a concise critique on the idea of humans… Continue reading Review: The Myth of Monogamy

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The Price of Progress

  I'm not a political expert. While I am confident about where I stand when it comes to LGBTQ and women's health rights, my exact stance on gun control and how welfare should work is not so formulated. These are complicated matters with many layers and never as black and white as either side seems to… Continue reading The Price of Progress

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My Little Friend

My first legit vibrator was a Fun Factory Tiger G4. It was the toy responsible for my first ever clitoral orgasm. One day post terrible breakup, it stopped working mid playtime. In my frustration, I started banging it against the floor. By some miracle of electronics, it came back to life. Over the next six… Continue reading My Little Friend