Self Love

Self-love is all the rage.  I've been doing this for years, but I called it bribing myself to get shit done. I have four tattoos all associated with major life events. This one is my present to myself for completing my book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life. It … Continue reading Self Love

Tales From the Field

Sometimes I feel almost obligated to be dating. I am not monogamous. I write about non-monogamy. Am I less credible if I only have one partner? Of course, the answer is no. Regardless, every few months I try to put some effort into meeting potential new romantic partners. I tidy up my online profile, add … Continue reading Tales From the Field

Love in the Time of Jazz

I recently stumbled upon a show called Z: The Beginning of Everything (there will be spoilers). The series is about the tumultuous relationship between Zelda Fitzgerald and her husband the late, great F. Scott Fitzgerald.  Of his, or should I say their work, I’ve only read The Great Gatsby. I’m enamored by the roaring 20s. … Continue reading Love in the Time of Jazz

Use Your Words

I recently gave a presentation for Utah Sex Positive Education about how to get what you want in your relationships. One of the most important points was communication is essential from the onset of a relationship because people are dating for different reasons. For a long time, the end game was always marriage and a … Continue reading Use Your Words