After over a year of trial and error and literal tears, my audiobook is complete and available on Audible and iTunes!! Enjoy 🙂 Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life Audiobook
Catch & Release: THE AUDIOBOOK
Marriage Doesn’t Hold the Market on Happiness
You don't have to spend much time on any polyamory platform before you see someone lamenting over their singlehood or lack of an additional partner. If only they could find that special someone or someones to spend the rest of their life with, all their woes would be over. To their credit, romantic comedies and …
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What They Don’t Tell You About Noise Reduction
So today I am going to tell you about some issues I’m having with one of my partners. I’ve talked about them a lot, in fact, I’ve hardly shut up about them since I started this blog. While there were definitely some challenges at the beginning, recently we’ve really hit a rough patch. Last night …
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Self Love
Self-love is all the rage. I've been doing this for years, but I called it bribing myself to get shit done. I have four tattoos all associated with major life events. This one is my present to myself for completing my book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life. It …
My New Book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life
Catch and Release How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life is officially released!! For now, it's only available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble's websites, but soon I will have signed copies and swag available through the nonmonogblog website. For now, you can head here to buy a copy: Catch & Release: How I …
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Out With the Old
Whether or not you ascribe to New Year’s resolutions, it’s hard not to do a brief evaluation of the state of your life compared to where it was at the beginning of last year when the new year rolls around. Of utmost importance to many of us is the state of our relationships, particularly those …
How Not To Make Me Fall in Love
The importance of knowing what you want in a relationship and noticing when someone is not on the same page cannot be overstated. A few years ago, I met T.J. the D.J. on OKCupid. I’d been online dating for a couple weeks and was going on several dates a week. T.J. the D.J. was, among …
Review: Professor Marston and the Wonder Women (Spoilers)
Stories are important. The characters on screens and the pages of books and comics are there to validate social customs. Children learn much of what they know about how the world works from stories. For the past century, heterosexual monogamy has been the predominant theme surrounding romantic relationships. While it may seem this theme has …
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The Poignant Nature of Love
Roger met Susy at the senior center. Her silver hair was neatly kept in tight curls around her head, and she always wore a silk scarf around her neck. She liked John Wayne movies and visiting with the staff about their families. Roger started sitting by her whenever he could to strike up a conversation. He …
You Won’t Know Until You Try
Last week I listened to an episode of the podcast Hidden Brain that explained how humans are truly terrible at predicting their own future, in particular when it comes to guessing how the outcome of a difficult decision will make us feel. The guest host was social psychologist Dan Gilbert who teaches at Harvard. Whether …
A Polyamorous Love Story 