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The Division of Unpaid Labor: Part 1

From the Flinstones to the Brady Bunch Living together as grownups is something we’ve been doing for generations. For a very long time, humans lived in small groups. Survival of these groups relied on a distribution of labor between everyone in the group. If you did not pitch in or hoarded resources, you were out.… Continue reading The Division of Unpaid Labor: Part 1

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RelateCon 2018

I had such a great time at RelateCon listening to phenomenal presenters, catching up with friends, and meeting so many new faces!! Thanks for letting me share my thoughts about polyamory and science 🙂 Here are the slides from my presentations. Also, if you didn't grab a copy at the conference, you can purchase signed… Continue reading RelateCon 2018

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What They Don’t Tell You About Noise Reduction

So today I am going to tell you about some issues I’m having with one of my partners. I’ve talked about them a lot, in fact, I’ve hardly shut up about them since I started this blog. While there were definitely some challenges at the beginning, recently we’ve really hit a rough patch. Last night… Continue reading What They Don’t Tell You About Noise Reduction

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My New Book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

Catch and Release How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life is officially released!! For now, it's only available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble's websites, but soon I will have signed copies and swag available through the nonmonogblog website. For now, you can head here to buy a copy: Catch & Release: How I… Continue reading My New Book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

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Two and a half years ago I got this crazy idea in my head to write a book. I'd found myself unexpectedly single and wondered if there was a better way to experience romantic relationships. There are plenty books about love and dating out there already but unfortunately many are written with outdated perspectives and… Continue reading

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Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life Update

Two and a half years ago I got this crazy idea in my head to write a book. I'd found myself unexpectedly single and wondered if there was a better way to experience romantic relationships. There are plenty books about love and dating out there already but unfortunately many are written with outdated perspectives and… Continue reading Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life Update