Dating 101, Science of Poly

How Body Image Affects Your Sex Life

If you're having relationships woes, particularly in the bedroom, one problem you might not have considered is body image. A recent study discovered that the image you have of yourself can affect your sex life. If you don't feel comfortable in your skin, you won't be able to truly enjoy yourself when it's all you're… Continue reading How Body Image Affects Your Sex Life

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RelateCon 2018

I had such a great time at RelateCon listening to phenomenal presenters, catching up with friends, and meeting so many new faces!! Thanks for letting me share my thoughts about polyamory and science ๐Ÿ™‚ Here are the slides from my presentations. Also, if you didn't grab a copy at the conference, you can purchase signed… Continue reading RelateCon 2018

Catch and Release, Dating 101, Story Time

What They Donโ€™t Tell You About Noise Reduction

So today I am going to tell you about some issues Iโ€™m having with one of my partners. Iโ€™ve talked about them a lot, in fact, Iโ€™ve hardly shut up about them since I started this blog. While there were definitely some challenges at the beginning, recently weโ€™ve really hit a rough patch. Last night… Continue reading What They Donโ€™t Tell You About Noise Reduction

Catch and Release

My New Book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

Catch and Release How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life is officially released!! For now, it's only available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble's websites, but soon I will have signed copies and swag available through the nonmonogblogย website. For now, you can head here to buy a copy: Catch & Release: How I… Continue reading My New Book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

Science of Poly, Story Time

Preface to Catch & Release

โ€œIf I only knew, that happy ever after wasnโ€™t you.โ€ โ€“ Gin Wigmore 3/1/2014 The first time I saw them together, my heart stopped. It was a shock, even though the sexually charged atmosphere of the past two weekends left this outcome inevitable. This story began with marriage. At least for half its characters, fading… Continue reading Preface to Catch & Release

Science of Poly, Story Time

Preface to Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

โ€œIf I only knew, that happy ever after wasnโ€™t you.โ€ โ€“ Gin Wigmore 3/1/2014 The first time I saw them together, my heart stopped. It was a shock, even though the sexually charged atmosphere of the past two weekends left this outcome inevitable. This story began with marriage. At least for half its characters, fading… Continue reading Preface to Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

Science of Poly

Out With the Old

Whether or not you ascribe to New Yearโ€™s resolutions, itโ€™s hard not to do a brief evaluation of the state of your life compared to where it was at the beginning of last year when the new year rolls around. Of utmost importance to many of us is the state of our relationships, particularly those… Continue reading Out With the Old