Use Your Words

I recently gave a presentation for Utah Sex Positive Education about how to get what you want in your relationships. One of the most important points was communication is essential from the onset of a relationship because people are dating for different reasons. For a long time, the end game was always marriage and a … Continue reading Use Your Words

A Few Thoughts Concerning Lingerie

I have loved wearing sexy underthings since my purity ring was still firmly on my ring finger. My first boyfriend who knew I was a virgin was shocked when he first laid eyes on a pair of lacy pink panties. A good girl like me hiding sexy garments beneath my hippy skirts, who could imagine … Continue reading A Few Thoughts Concerning Lingerie

Fantastic Tales of Polyamory

Spoilers!!! This post contains spoilers for the popular fantasy series Wheel of Time. Stories are important because the values of a culture are deeply interwoven into the characters and plot twists. No one sits a five-year-old down and tells them monogamy is the socially acceptable way to love when they grow up. However, young children … Continue reading Fantastic Tales of Polyamory

Variation in Human Sexuality

My upcoming book Catch and Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life delves into the science of love. Researching and writing on this topic was alarmingly insightful, and I enjoyed it thoroughly. My book is on its way to being published, and I find myself missing the research as I fight my … Continue reading Variation in Human Sexuality

Dating Profile User Manual

While at RelateCon, I listened to a couple presentations by Cunning Minx and Lusty Guy, co-hosts of the podcast Polyamory Weekly. There were many useful nuggets of information and one of my favorites was writing a user manual for yourself which can be embedded in a dating profile. Ideally, it will allow potential suitors to … Continue reading Dating Profile User Manual

RelateCon 2017: Solo Poly- The Nights You Spend Alone

I had such a wonderful time at RelateCon. Here are the notes for my presentation on solo poly. Please contact me if you have any comments or questions. Thanks! My very first boyfriend and I had an open relationship, much to the disapproval of my religious friends, which was all of them. Even though I … Continue reading RelateCon 2017: Solo Poly- The Nights You Spend Alone