RelateCon 2018

I had such a great time at RelateCon listening to phenomenal presenters, catching up with friends, and meeting so many new faces!! Thanks for letting me share my thoughts about polyamory and science 🙂 Here are the slides from my presentations. Also, if you didn't grab a copy at the conference, you can purchase signed … Continue reading RelateCon 2018

What They Don’t Tell You About Noise Reduction

So today I am going to tell you about some issues I’m having with one of my partners. I’ve talked about them a lot, in fact, I’ve hardly shut up about them since I started this blog. While there were definitely some challenges at the beginning, recently we’ve really hit a rough patch. Last night … Continue reading What They Don’t Tell You About Noise Reduction

Self Love

Self-love is all the rage.  I've been doing this for years, but I called it bribing myself to get shit done. I have four tattoos all associated with major life events. This one is my present to myself for completing my book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life. It … Continue reading Self Love

A Time to Build Bridges

Tinder is a modern wonder. No longer do you have to go out into the cold dark night and spend hours hovering around the bar scanning the room until you find someone sending you fuck me eyes only to realize they were actually gazing at the hot piece of ass behind you. Now all you … Continue reading A Time to Build Bridges

My New Book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

Catch and Release How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life is officially released!! For now, it's only available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble's websites, but soon I will have signed copies and swag available through the nonmonogblog website. For now, you can head here to buy a copy: Catch & Release: How I … Continue reading My New Book Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

Preface to Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life

“If I only knew, that happy ever after wasn’t you.” – Gin Wigmore 3/1/2014 The first time I saw them together, my heart stopped. It was a shock, even though the sexually charged atmosphere of the past two weekends left this outcome inevitable. This story began with marriage. At least for half its characters, fading … Continue reading Preface to Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life